📌 READ BEFORE MESSAGING ME
If you’re here, read my profile. It tells you exactly what I’m into, what I’m open to, and how to approach me. Ignoring it is the fastest way to get ignored back.
Come correct. Communicate clearly.
Confidence is sexy ,being fucking rude is not.
✨ About Me ✨
I’m 5’7 and fat. BBW. Plushie. Fluffy. Full figured. Soft, heavy, and feminine in a way that’s warm and real. My body takes up space and I’m comfortable in it.
I move through life with intention . I’m grounded, sensual by nature, and selective with my energy. I don’t rush connections or give access easily. I connect best with men who value conversation, emotional awareness, and consistency.
I’m a homebody. I don’t enjoy going out or planning dates. I’m most comfortable in my own space and drawn to quiet, calm environments. Loud scenes and constant activity aren’t my thing.
I’m always evolving. Every time I think I know exactly what I want, experience teaches me something new. Growth matters to me more than certainty.
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🖤 Real Life Transparency
I am married and emotionally unattached from my marriage, so that’s stated upfront. The situation works for ME. and that’s all that matters.
I’m looking for one man for a discreet, ongoing friends with benefits or companion dynamic. Something intentional, respectful, and consistent. Not rushed. Not chaotic.
I need conversation before meeting. FaceTime, Phone calls to see if we align. I become more comfortable and more attracted to a man the more I get to know him and feel secure in his energy.
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🌙 Energy & Presence
I’m a Capricorn. Steady, intentional, and quietly intense. I value follow through, clarity, and men who mean what they say.
I tend to overthink. I open slowly, but when I do, it’s with depth. I’m drawn to men who are comfortable expressing interest, appreciation, and reassurance without pressure.
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😌 What Draws Me In
Calm, grounded masculine energy.
Patience. Emotional steadiness.
A soothing voice. Tone and presence matter more to me than looks.
I’m attracted to leadership that feels protective, not overpowering. Confidence without ego. I notice appearance, but I connect through energy and how a man communicates.
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🍑 Attraction & Appreciation
I’m drawn to men who genuinely like thick thighs, full breasts that aren’t perky, and a soft, pillow sized belly.
Not tolerance. Not curiosity. Real desire.
Men who appreciate softness, weight, and fullness without trying to reshape or “fix” it.
I want to be wanted for my body exactly as it is. Warm, heavy, plush, and feminine. Appreciation should feel affirming and natural, never performative or fetish driven.
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🖤 The Kind of Man I Align With
✔️ Emotionally grounded
✔️ Clear, communicative, and consistent
✔️ Comfortable with Black women and full figured bodies
✔️ Confident without entitlement
If you know how to admire without reducing a woman, we’ll likely align.
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🚫 Boundaries
• I only meet in hotels (Warwick)
• No same day meetings
• I don’t respond well to pressure or entitlement
• I will not call you “daddy”
Respect and patience are required.
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🖤 Attraction & Openness
I’m generally not sexually attracted to white men.
That said, energy, consistency, and intention matter. If you believe you’re the exception and can show that through actions, I’m open to being surprised.
No fetishization. No idle curiosity.
Approach with clarity or don’t approach.
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