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Prodomme and event coordinator. Currently poly saturated but always open to new friendships and professional connections. You can find me, in person at Platforms, 165 Poe ST, every Wednesday Night. I'm the trademark owner for KiNK Providence and one of the Dommes as well..Make sure to come say hi, I'll be behind the ropes of the dungeon. I also work the Playground in Providence for their bi monthly Fusion Fridays (combo of kink and swing) and am an event coordinator for kink providences sunday socials. Why am I telling you this? Between being a Prodomme, lifestyle educator, writer and an event coordinator I don't have many spoons for social media left. I teach consent and am passionate about its practice. If you start off with telling me what you want to do to me or vice versa...You'll either be ignored, ridiculed & have lost your chance. Mention blue in your message to me that you've read my profile. Mention blue eyes if you plan on attending one of my events and want an introduction.
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
I’m Alexis, I have lived in New England for about 2 years, originally from CO. I Emo girl by design, festival girl by night I like hiking, anime, video games, crafting, and live music No trump supporters, I will tell you lick rocks no judgement but I am not interested in matching with someone who is asexual, as that’s just not for me. I change my hair color a lot, it’s currently a few shades blue and purple
OH HI! I'm here for the booty calls & bullshit. No I don't want to go on a date I'm trynna hit n quit. I MAY be down to host , waiting on furniture but I have roomates n don't drive. we trynna get h!gh and ride the sky ?
puppygirl (no gear, hmu if you like spoiling girls) if your submissive pls don’t message me, I’m no dom compassionate respectful doms >> I’m not hooking up with just anybody but casual till commitment when we’ve both earned it >>
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
Looking to connect with others in the community on a platonic level. No fwb but I'm open to a “flirtship” once we both consent. I'm demisexual so bonding takes time. I'm interested in connecting with folks that are putting in the work by being ACTIVELY IN THERAPY. I'm drawn to people with emotional intelligence. I'm a switch leaning sub. I'm creative and like to sing, write and play dress up. I love nature and I'm spiritual. I have a service dog because I'm a spoonie w a chronic illness (look up spoonie if you don't already know).
📌 READ BEFORE MESSAGING I’m NOT sexually attracted to white men. 🚨Going forward, if you’ve actually taken the time to read my profile and feel like we align, before we spend days talking in circles and wasting each other’s time, ask for my little questionnaire 😌 I’m at a point where I value consistency, communication, effort, chemistry, and genuine connection. I’m not into random energy, surface-level conversations, or people who don’t know what they want. Physical attraction matters, but so does personality, effort, emotional intelligence… and let’s be honest, sexual compatibility too because life is too short for confusing vibes and trash sex 😂🚨 If you’re here, read my profile. It tells you exactly what I’m into, what I’m open to, and how to approach me. Ignoring it is the fastest way to get ignored back. Come correct. Communicate clearly. Confidence is sexy ,being fucking rude is not. ✨ About Me ✨ I’m 5’7 and fat. BBW. Plushie. Full figured. Soft, heavy, thick thighs, full breasts that aren’t perky, and a pillow sized belly feminine in a way that’s warm and real. My body takes up space and I’m comfortable in it. I move through life with intention . I’m grounded, sensual by nature, and selective with my energy. I don’t rush connections or give access easily. I connect best with men who value conversation, emotional awareness, and consistency. I’m a homebody. I don’t enjoy going out or planning dates. I’m most comfortable in my own space and drawn to quiet, calm environments. Loud scenes and constant activity aren’t my thing. 🌹🌹🌹 🖤 Real Life Transparency I am married and emotionally unattached from my marriage, so that’s stated upfront. The situation works for ME. and that’s all that matters. YES, he knows. I’m looking for one man for a discreet, ongoing friends with benefits or companion dynamic. Something intentional, respectful, and consistent. Not rushed. Not chaotic. I need conversation before meeting. FaceTime, Phone calls to see if we align. I become more comfortable and more attracted to a man the more I get to know him and feel secure in his energy. 🌹🌹🌹 🌙 Energy & Presence I’m a Capricorn. Steady, intentional, and quietly intense. I value follow through, clarity, and men who mean what they say. I tend to overthink. I open slowly, but when I do, it’s with depth. I’m drawn to men who are comfortable expressing interest, appreciation, and reassurance without pressure. 🌹🌹🌹 😌 What Draws Me In Calm, grounded masculine energy. Patience. Emotional steadiness. A soothing voice. Tone and presence matter more to me than looks. I’m attracted to leadership that feels protective, not overpowering. Confidence without ego. I notice appearance, but I connect through energy and how a man communicates. 🌹🌹🌹 🍑 Attraction & Appreciation Attractions & Appreciation should feel affirming and natural, never performative or fetish driven. 🌹🌹🌹 🖤 The Kind of Man I Align With ✔️ Emotionally grounded ✔️ Clear, communicative, and consistent ✔️ Comfortable with Black women and full figured bodies ✔️ Confident without entitlement If you know how to admire without reducing a woman, we’ll likely align. 🌹🌹🌹 🚫 Boundaries • I only meet in hotels (Warwick) • No same day meetings • I don’t respond well to pressure or entitlement • I will not call you “daddy” 🚫 Degrading Respect and patience are required. 🌹🌹🌹
Female (43) Providence, Rhode Island
Hi! My name is Sam, I am 35, female, curvy, tall… independent, and emotionally available. I am looking for consistency. Key word. Which requires discipline, respect, honesty, and transparency. I am a hyper independent woman, job, car, etc. I don’t need you to support me financially, or buy me drinks and luxury. My luxury is: farm raised and sourced food, the nature, sauna, beach, hike, travel, not being tied down to a 9-5 job, magical trips, passion and food, feeding home made dinner to my partner, and experiencing new pleasures. In life, I am a total wifey… cook, clean, cater. but I am also always in control and responsible for family members. Always keeping it together and also keeping everyone together. In partner I need you to see that, and be aware and understand underneath the face I put out, all I just want to be feminine and catering to my partner. From you… I need consistency, emotional availability, discipline, respect and manners. Please be grown, with grown up problems and needs and passion and goals. I am interested in someone who is willing to put finding a genuine connection over sexual one, someone who is dating with intent. I am real and willing to meet for coffee. I am not pretending to be a 10/10, model. I’ve been told I am or can be demanding, resting B face, mysterious, intimidating, I dunno why… but yeah. I am normal, kinda a hippie, moved here from Cali 10 years ago. An artist with works in a few museums. Sarcastic with a dark sense of humor. I do have a sharp tongue, maybe that’s just my way of asking for a spanking.
I am a quick witted, wild ride, looking for a beautiful woman to devour before they have their way with me.
Female (44) Providence, Rhode Island
Hi, I'm Gia. I'm an ALL NATURAL brunette with a fat ass and amazingly big tits. I hate playing games especially when I'm horny as fuck lol so I'll just be real.. I smoke (not weed) and get super horny, very slutty and kinda perverted haha let's have fun 😊
🖤 Sweet submissive kitten recovering from heartbreak 🖤 Currently focusing on self-improvement (mind & body) & getting back to practicing mindfulness and gratitude 🖤 Keeping my eye out for an emotionally available Daddy Dom
judgement free safe space, looking for someone mutually open minded and down to explore new things and each other I want something consistent, but open to other fun too
Female (22) Providence, Rhode Island
Subby queer femme seeking grounded, intentional dominance and a steady hand. Daddy Dom energy. Emotional safety and respect are non-negotiable. I’m drawn to masculine presence across genders, preferably within the queer community: butch, stone, trans, and nonbinary folks. Connection matters more than the label. Queer community welcome for play, non-play, friendship, and mutual care.
I’m a plus size woman who is looking to find like minded people to have fun with. I love reading and watching movies in my down time. also looking for a ltr with a pleasure dom/daddy dom to care for me and my needs
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
If you are into performative authority, I'm sorry not for me. I will just start managing you as a caregiver. You just look nervous to me It doesn't do anything else. 1) non-daily but long term dynamics (d/s) picking my underwear everyday is just not going to work, but I'd love to chat especially with ideas, play games 2) not into ONS does nothing for me honestly 3) not looking for a boyfriend; I already have connections that I am not going to let go of, and dating and personal life separate for me 4) I want to play with my well treated familiar doms essentially. 5) I'm a good girl but I want to make sure you earned it. I'm looking for competence and self discipline/ self restraint. Also, I'm on the other apps on the same screen name in case this one disappears.
Female (39) Providence, Rhode Island
Use me however you’d like. If you love getting head you’ll love me ;) Super goth if you’re into that, obsessed with the more eccentric and unusual parts of life. I’m a switch and can do both roles well, whatever pleases you. Prefer women but anything goes. Open to sex parties and orgies. I’d love to talk about our kinks 420 friendly lets smoke together
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
KiNK Providence is New Englands Only Weekly Fetish Night! Held at Alchemy, 171 Chestnut Street, on Wednesday Nights from 9:30PM-1AM. Pro dom/mes and Service Tops are available to guide you through your fetish desires, such as (but not limited to) IMPACT, ELECTRICAL, & ENERGY play. Wish to play with your own person? Rent-a-stations are available upon request. There is no sex at this event, KiNK Providence is held at a public nightclub so no vetting required.
Female (40) Providence, Rhode Island
here to explore. other dating sites have been pretty boring. lol
Female (45) Providence, Rhode Island
hi! i’m jilly i’m 21 and im looking for a caregiver LTR! sfw little:) passenger princess👑 i have very little limits chronically ill girlie
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
I am a little and a bit of a brat I am looking for the daddy that can handle me and can give me both punishment and funishment I’m new to this and still lots to be explored and need help with discovering what I like.
geeky with a love of d&d and gaming, artist who loves to ***t, draw, or work clay even though I am not good at any of it. Due to the number of years I've been "in scene ", most consider me a member of the old guard in the bdsm realm. no kids, not married, std checks every 6 months,. you must love dogs/pets , not in a weird way. and the outdoors - not hunting.
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
New here, just slowly exploring. I’m drawn to quiet control, soft attention, and the kind of connection that takes its time. I’m open to connecting with people of any gender, though I tend to feel most at ease with women — especially if you speak Chinese. Still figuring things out, but open-hearted and curious.
Female (25) Providence, Rhode Island
I'm fun/funny. Even been called a good time. Please do not approach me off jump with out of pocket dm's. Read the fucking room.
Female (45) Providence, Rhode Island

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I’m Alexis, I have lived in New England for about 2 years, originally from CO. I Emo girl by design, festival girl by night I like hiking, anime, video games, crafting, and live music No trump supporters, I will tell you lick rocks no judgement but I am not interested in matching with someone who is asexual, as that’s just not for me. I change my hair color a lot, it’s currently a few shades blue and purple
OH HI! I'm here for the booty calls & bullshit. No I don't want to go on a date I'm trynna hit n quit. I MAY be down to host , waiting on furniture but I have roomates n don't drive. we trynna get h!gh and ride the sky ?
Prodomme and event coordinator. Currently poly saturated but always open to new friendships and professional connections. You can find me, in person at Platforms, 165 Poe ST, every Wednesday Night. I'm the trademark owner for KiNK Providence and one of the Dommes as well..Make sure to come say hi, I'll be behind the ropes of the dungeon. I also work the Playground in Providence for their bi monthly Fusion Fridays (combo of kink and swing) and am an event coordinator for kink providences sunday socials. Why am I telling you this? Between being a Prodomme, lifestyle educator, writer and an event coordinator I don't have many spoons for social media left. I teach consent and am passionate about its practice. If you start off with telling me what you want to do to me or vice versa...You'll either be ignored, ridiculed & have lost your chance. Mention blue in your message to me that you've read my profile. Mention blue eyes if you plan on attending one of my events and want an introduction.
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
Hi! My name is Sam, I am 35, female, curvy, tall… independent, and emotionally available. I am looking for consistency. Key word. Which requires discipline, respect, honesty, and transparency. I am a hyper independent woman, job, car, etc. I don’t need you to support me financially, or buy me drinks and luxury. My luxury is: farm raised and sourced food, the nature, sauna, beach, hike, travel, not being tied down to a 9-5 job, magical trips, passion and food, feeding home made dinner to my partner, and experiencing new pleasures. In life, I am a total wifey… cook, clean, cater. but I am also always in control and responsible for family members. Always keeping it together and also keeping everyone together. In partner I need you to see that, and be aware and understand underneath the face I put out, all I just want to be feminine and catering to my partner. From you… I need consistency, emotional availability, discipline, respect and manners. Please be grown, with grown up problems and needs and passion and goals. I am interested in someone who is willing to put finding a genuine connection over sexual one, someone who is dating with intent. I am real and willing to meet for coffee. I am not pretending to be a 10/10, model. I’ve been told I am or can be demanding, resting B face, mysterious, intimidating, I dunno why… but yeah. I am normal, kinda a hippie, moved here from Cali 10 years ago. An artist with works in a few museums. Sarcastic with a dark sense of humor. I do have a sharp tongue, maybe that’s just my way of asking for a spanking.
If you are into performative authority, I'm sorry not for me. I will just start managing you as a caregiver. You just look nervous to me It doesn't do anything else. 1) non-daily but long term dynamics (d/s) picking my underwear everyday is just not going to work, but I'd love to chat especially with ideas, play games 2) not into ONS does nothing for me honestly 3) not looking for a boyfriend; I already have connections that I am not going to let go of, and dating and personal life separate for me 4) I want to play with my well treated familiar doms essentially. 5) I'm a good girl but I want to make sure you earned it. I'm looking for competence and self discipline/ self restraint. Also, I'm on the other apps on the same screen name in case this one disappears.
Female (39) Providence, Rhode Island
puppygirl (no gear, hmu if you like spoiling girls) if your submissive pls don’t message me, I’m no dom compassionate respectful doms >> I’m not hooking up with just anybody but casual till commitment when we’ve both earned it >>
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
KiNK Providence is New Englands Only Weekly Fetish Night! Held at Alchemy, 171 Chestnut Street, on Wednesday Nights from 9:30PM-1AM. Pro dom/mes and Service Tops are available to guide you through your fetish desires, such as (but not limited to) IMPACT, ELECTRICAL, & ENERGY play. Wish to play with your own person? Rent-a-stations are available upon request. There is no sex at this event, KiNK Providence is held at a public nightclub so no vetting required.
Female (40) Providence, Rhode Island
🖤 Sweet submissive kitten recovering from heartbreak 🖤 Currently focusing on self-improvement (mind & body) & getting back to practicing mindfulness and gratitude 🖤 Keeping my eye out for an emotionally available Daddy Dom
Subby queer femme seeking grounded, intentional dominance and a steady hand. Daddy Dom energy. Emotional safety and respect are non-negotiable. I’m drawn to masculine presence across genders, preferably within the queer community: butch, stone, trans, and nonbinary folks. Connection matters more than the label. Queer community welcome for play, non-play, friendship, and mutual care.
Hi, I'm Gia. I'm an ALL NATURAL brunette with a fat ass and amazingly big tits. I hate playing games especially when I'm horny as fuck lol so I'll just be real.. I smoke (not weed) and get super horny, very slutty and kinda perverted haha let's have fun 😊
geeky with a love of d&d and gaming, artist who loves to ***t, draw, or work clay even though I am not good at any of it. Due to the number of years I've been "in scene ", most consider me a member of the old guard in the bdsm realm. no kids, not married, std checks every 6 months,. you must love dogs/pets , not in a weird way. and the outdoors - not hunting.
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
here to explore. other dating sites have been pretty boring. lol
Female (45) Providence, Rhode Island
I’m a plus size woman who is looking to find like minded people to have fun with. I love reading and watching movies in my down time. also looking for a ltr with a pleasure dom/daddy dom to care for me and my needs
Female (41) Providence, Rhode Island
judgement free safe space, looking for someone mutually open minded and down to explore new things and each other I want something consistent, but open to other fun too
Female (22) Providence, Rhode Island
📌 READ BEFORE MESSAGING I’m NOT sexually attracted to white men. 🚨Going forward, if you’ve actually taken the time to read my profile and feel like we align, before we spend days talking in circles and wasting each other’s time, ask for my little questionnaire 😌 I’m at a point where I value consistency, communication, effort, chemistry, and genuine connection. I’m not into random energy, surface-level conversations, or people who don’t know what they want. Physical attraction matters, but so does personality, effort, emotional intelligence… and let’s be honest, sexual compatibility too because life is too short for confusing vibes and trash sex 😂🚨 If you’re here, read my profile. It tells you exactly what I’m into, what I’m open to, and how to approach me. Ignoring it is the fastest way to get ignored back. Come correct. Communicate clearly. Confidence is sexy ,being fucking rude is not. ✨ About Me ✨ I’m 5’7 and fat. BBW. Plushie. Full figured. Soft, heavy, thick thighs, full breasts that aren’t perky, and a pillow sized belly feminine in a way that’s warm and real. My body takes up space and I’m comfortable in it. I move through life with intention . I’m grounded, sensual by nature, and selective with my energy. I don’t rush connections or give access easily. I connect best with men who value conversation, emotional awareness, and consistency. I’m a homebody. I don’t enjoy going out or planning dates. I’m most comfortable in my own space and drawn to quiet, calm environments. Loud scenes and constant activity aren’t my thing. 🌹🌹🌹 🖤 Real Life Transparency I am married and emotionally unattached from my marriage, so that’s stated upfront. The situation works for ME. and that’s all that matters. YES, he knows. I’m looking for one man for a discreet, ongoing friends with benefits or companion dynamic. Something intentional, respectful, and consistent. Not rushed. Not chaotic. I need conversation before meeting. FaceTime, Phone calls to see if we align. I become more comfortable and more attracted to a man the more I get to know him and feel secure in his energy. 🌹🌹🌹 🌙 Energy & Presence I’m a Capricorn. Steady, intentional, and quietly intense. I value follow through, clarity, and men who mean what they say. I tend to overthink. I open slowly, but when I do, it’s with depth. I’m drawn to men who are comfortable expressing interest, appreciation, and reassurance without pressure. 🌹🌹🌹 😌 What Draws Me In Calm, grounded masculine energy. Patience. Emotional steadiness. A soothing voice. Tone and presence matter more to me than looks. I’m attracted to leadership that feels protective, not overpowering. Confidence without ego. I notice appearance, but I connect through energy and how a man communicates. 🌹🌹🌹 🍑 Attraction & Appreciation Attractions & Appreciation should feel affirming and natural, never performative or fetish driven. 🌹🌹🌹 🖤 The Kind of Man I Align With ✔️ Emotionally grounded ✔️ Clear, communicative, and consistent ✔️ Comfortable with Black women and full figured bodies ✔️ Confident without entitlement If you know how to admire without reducing a woman, we’ll likely align. 🌹🌹🌹 🚫 Boundaries • I only meet in hotels (Warwick) • No same day meetings • I don’t respond well to pressure or entitlement • I will not call you “daddy” 🚫 Degrading Respect and patience are required. 🌹🌹🌹
Female (43) Providence, Rhode Island
New here, just slowly exploring. I’m drawn to quiet control, soft attention, and the kind of connection that takes its time. I’m open to connecting with people of any gender, though I tend to feel most at ease with women — especially if you speak Chinese. Still figuring things out, but open-hearted and curious.
Female (25) Providence, Rhode Island
I'm fun/funny. Even been called a good time. Please do not approach me off jump with out of pocket dm's. Read the fucking room.
Female (45) Providence, Rhode Island
I am a quick witted, wild ride, looking for a beautiful woman to devour before they have their way with me.
Female (44) Providence, Rhode Island
hi! i’m jilly i’m 21 and im looking for a caregiver LTR! sfw little:) passenger princess👑 i have very little limits chronically ill girlie
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
I am a little and a bit of a brat I am looking for the daddy that can handle me and can give me both punishment and funishment I’m new to this and still lots to be explored and need help with discovering what I like.
Use me however you’d like. If you love getting head you’ll love me ;) Super goth if you’re into that, obsessed with the more eccentric and unusual parts of life. I’m a switch and can do both roles well, whatever pleases you. Prefer women but anything goes. Open to sex parties and orgies. I’d love to talk about our kinks 420 friendly lets smoke together
Female (21) Providence, Rhode Island
Looking to connect with others in the community on a platonic level. No fwb but I'm open to a “flirtship” once we both consent. I'm demisexual so bonding takes time. I'm interested in connecting with folks that are putting in the work by being ACTIVELY IN THERAPY. I'm drawn to people with emotional intelligence. I'm a switch leaning sub. I'm creative and like to sing, write and play dress up. I love nature and I'm spiritual. I have a service dog because I'm a spoonie w a chronic illness (look up spoonie if you don't already know).

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